{"id":4005,"date":"2020-06-30T08:57:39","date_gmt":"2020-06-30T07:57:39","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/blogs.canterbury.ac.uk\/staffdevelopment\/?p=4005"},"modified":"2020-06-30T08:57:40","modified_gmt":"2020-06-30T07:57:40","slug":"i-love-to-laugh","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/blogs.canterbury.ac.uk\/staffdevelopment\/i-love-to-laugh\/","title":{"rendered":"I love to laugh"},"content":{"rendered":"\n<p>They say that laughter is the best medicine. Humour and wit can be found all around us &#8211; even now when it seems there isn&#8217;t much to laugh about. But what does laughter bring in the workplace?<\/p>\n\n\n\n<!--more-->\n\n\n\n<blockquote class=\"wp-block-quote is-layout-flow wp-block-quote-is-layout-flow\"><p>Laugh as much as possible, always laugh. It&#8217;s the sweetest thing one can do for oneself &amp; one&#8217;s fellow human beings.<\/p><cite>Maya Angelou<\/cite><\/blockquote>\n\n\n\n<p>This weekend I binge-watched (twice) BBC&#8217;s <a href=\"https:\/\/www.bbc.co.uk\/programmes\/p08dnl67\" class=\"aioseop-link\">Staged<\/a> with the brilliant David Tennant and Michael Sheen. While watching, I realised that I haven&#8217;t laughed so much in ages &#8211; and it was just what I needed. If you haven&#8217;t seen it (and don&#8217;t mind quite a bit of swearing), then I can&#8217;t recommend it enough. <\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>My sense of humour is random, obscure and often dark. When I was in my youth I always loved to play up in class &#8211; make the silly joke. This has carried through to my adulthood into the workplace &#8211; yep, I&#8217;m the one who disrupts online meetings with random, out-there virtual backgrounds, or adds a funny gif instead of typing sensibly in the chat. <\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Don&#8217;t get me wrong &#8211; I can turn on the professional. But, where I can, I like to try to make people smile because I feel that, in the day to day stresses of the workplace, it is in humour that we can find ways of connecting and remember our humanity.  <\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>After all &#8211; we work to live, not live to work. <\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>And work should be fun at the end of the day, right? And there are <a class=\"aioseop-link\" href=\"https:\/\/hbr.org\/2018\/11\/the-benefits-of-laughing-in-the-office\">lots of benefits<\/a> to bringing laughter (where appropriate) to the workplace. I know I feel more energised, creative and motivated when what I am doing brings me a spark of joy. And I often notice that my laughter and joy rubs off on others &#8211; that people become more open and relaxed. That tensions dissipate and people connect and collaborate together with a renewed focus and sense of purpose.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<blockquote class=\"wp-block-quote is-layout-flow wp-block-quote-is-layout-flow\"><p>It is a curious fact that people are never so trivial as when they take themselves seriously.<\/p><cite>Oscar Wilde<\/cite><\/blockquote>\n\n\n\n<p>I also love to use humour when I&#8217;m teaching others. I find it helps you <a class=\"aioseop-link\" href=\"https:\/\/www.edutopia.org\/blog\/laughter-learning-humor-boosts-retention-sarah-henderson\">retain information<\/a>. I know it does for me &#8211; programmes like QI, for example, teach you so much in such a short space of time, while keeping you engaged and entertained.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>But I always make sure I never make fun of others. If someone must be the butt of the joke, I make it myself &#8211; never anyone else. Humour, for me, is not putting others down, but trying to lift them up.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<blockquote class=\"wp-block-quote is-layout-flow wp-block-quote-is-layout-flow\"><p>I dearly love a&nbsp;laugh&#8230; I hope I never ridicule what is wise or good. Follies and nonsense, whims and inconsistencies do divert me, I own, and I&nbsp;laugh&nbsp;at them whenever I can.<\/p><cite>Jane Austen, Pride and Prejudice<\/cite><\/blockquote>\n\n\n\n<p>It is also vital that I consider context. I never want anyone to feel that I am making light of something that is very important and serious to them. Or that I don&#8217;t care about their worries and concerns. That I am belittling their feelings and experiences. I have to ensure my humour is appropriate to the situation &#8211; that I am sensitive to those around me and use my <a class=\"aioseop-link\" href=\"https:\/\/www.mindtools.com\/pages\/article\/newLDR_45.htm#:~:text=Emotional%20intelligence%20or%20EI%20is,emotions%20can%20affect%20other%20people.\">emotional intelligence<\/a>. But, if bringing a smile to someone could help, if that is what they need from me in that moment then, by-golly, I&#8217;m gonna try my best to make them giggle.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>And things are really tough right now. There seems less and less reason to laugh, to feel joy. And, I confess, much of the laughter I experience at the moment lends itself more to the hysterical kind. But I&#8217;ve always been a bubbly, happy, insufferably &#8216;little miss sunshine&#8217; type of person. And I don&#8217;t want to lose that &#8211; especially now. I have to stay true to my authentic, glass-half-full self &#8211; for my own wellbeing. 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