{"id":2053,"date":"2020-04-23T08:00:00","date_gmt":"2020-04-23T07:00:00","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/blogs.canterbury.ac.uk\/staffdevelopment\/?p=2053"},"modified":"2020-04-23T10:39:34","modified_gmt":"2020-04-23T09:39:34","slug":"keeping-it-real-and-keeping-a-routine","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/blogs.canterbury.ac.uk\/staffdevelopment\/keeping-it-real-and-keeping-a-routine\/","title":{"rendered":"Keeping it real, and keeping a routine"},"content":{"rendered":"\n<p>Barely three months in to the year, I\u2019ll be surprised if the word of\n2020 isn\u2019t \u2018unprecedented\u2019. <\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>That\u2019s why, on the <a href=\"https:\/\/blogs.canterbury.ac.uk\/careers\/\">Careers &amp; Enterprise blog<\/a>, I\u2019ve begun a new series reflecting the situation under that name &#8211; UNPRECEDENTED. I encourage you to check it out for some great encouragements and reflections (or just to be nosey\u2026) but back to my blog\u2026<\/p>\n\n\n\n<!--more-->\n\n\n\n<p>I have teacher friends who repeatedly told their teenage students that\nschools wouldn\u2019t be shut, and nurse friends who were repeatedly told they\u2019d\nnever need protective gear to go to work. Yet all the absolutes are gone, and\nwe power on.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>A few weeks ago I cleared a few necessities from my desk, everything\njust felt odd. My colleagues weren\u2019t there \u2013 I was leaving no one behind, yet\nthere was a little bit of sadness* as I knew this might well be the situation\nfor quite some time. I\u2019ve worked from home intermittently throughout my career\nso far, but never something so long-term as this. No one has ever seen anything\nlike this.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<div class=\"wp-block-image\"><figure class=\"alignleft size-large is-resized\"><img decoding=\"async\" src=\"https:\/\/blogs.canterbury.ac.uk\/staffdevelopment\/wp-content\/uploads\/sites\/602\/2020\/04\/susannah1.jpg\" alt=\"\" class=\"wp-image-2142\" width=\"325\" height=\"434\" srcset=\"https:\/\/blogs.canterbury.ac.uk\/staffdevelopment\/wp-content\/uploads\/sites\/602\/2020\/04\/susannah1.jpg 537w, https:\/\/blogs.canterbury.ac.uk\/staffdevelopment\/wp-content\/uploads\/sites\/602\/2020\/04\/susannah1-225x300.jpg 225w\" sizes=\"(max-width: 325px) 100vw, 325px\" \/><\/figure><\/div>\n\n\n\n<p>*Let\u2019s talk about sadness briefly. On further reflection and reading, it\u2019s called grief, and you may feel it a bit too. Grief for things you can\u2019t do, and people you can\u2019t see. Grief for the things you won\u2019t experience, or that you\u2019ll have to wait some time to be able to. If someone we know was grieving someone they\u2019d lost, we\u2019d be kind to them.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>We need to be kind to ourselves and those around us in just the same\nways at the moment. Perhaps you\u2019re grieving your planned holidays, or in\nmissing your family, friends, colleagues or social gatherings. I just want to\nlet you know that if you\u2019re grieving, that\u2019s ok. You\u2019re not alone. And, in\ntimes of grief, it\u2019s still ok to smile, and laugh, and find things funny. It\ncomes in waves. Look after yourself. It\u2019s ok to find this time hard, or\nconfusing. (I\u2019m not just saying this in an airy way, but I speak from\nexperience: on my list of madness is my wedding scheduled in June\u2026)<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>I\u2019ve been attempting to settle in to working from home. The top tip I was given: routine. Both in my personal and professional worlds, I\u2019ve tried to build in routine, even if they\u2019re different from my pre-lockdown life. The time I start and stop working, my eating and sleeping patterns and what time I take my daily exercise (whoever knew that would be a novelty?!) I try to keep the same.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>The main thing for me is the mornings, as it sets me up for the day. I\ncheck-in with friends isolated or living alone over Zoom (last month I thought\nthis was an aeroplane noise, this week it\u2019s a lifeline for seeing family who\nfeel too far away), then I\u2019m ready to work. I try to get up and stretch often,\nalthough I\u2019m not always good at remembering that bit when I\u2019m engrossed in\nsomething. <\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>I\u2019m not inflexible with the routine, but I\u2019m convinced it\u2019s a balm to\nthe calm to try to build a new normal. Some days, routines haven\u2019t worked, and\nthat\u2019s ok. But the sun still shines (I am so thankful for this lovely weather!)\nand we still have the chance to go and bask in that vitamin D.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>I think that learning to switch the work laptop off, is as important as switching it on. Now, more than ever, we risk blurring boundaries between work and home. Can we work in a different space than we like to rest in? Or can we at least hide the laptop under the bed over the weekend? I\u2019ve chosen to do the latter. Weekends need a new way to feel different, and I need to feel different within them.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>I change my routine times at the weekend, and try to plan in activities to make my time distinct between work and rest. Last weekend I tried an online origami class \u2013 I was sent the materials in the post, then we all logged on at the same time, and the workshop began. It was a great chance to chat to people I\u2019d never met before, and get a bit creative with learning a new skill. Check out my plant pot I made in the photo at the top of this page!&nbsp;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Tomorrow, I will share some great tools we have on our Careers and Enterprise Hub that are available for you to use as well as our students. So don&#8217;t forget to come back and check that out!<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p><strong>Susannah Taylor, Employability and Skills Officer<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p> <\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Barely three months in to the year, I\u2019ll be surprised if the word of 2020 isn\u2019t \u2018unprecedented\u2019. 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