{"id":1854,"date":"2020-04-16T08:00:00","date_gmt":"2020-04-16T07:00:00","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/blogs.canterbury.ac.uk\/staffdevelopment\/?p=1854"},"modified":"2020-04-15T17:16:44","modified_gmt":"2020-04-15T16:16:44","slug":"working-from-home-with-adhd","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/blogs.canterbury.ac.uk\/staffdevelopment\/working-from-home-with-adhd\/","title":{"rendered":"Working from Home with ADHD"},"content":{"rendered":"\n<p>I started writing this post two weeks ago, two weeks after I began self-isolating. It was a bad time for my brain because while I knew that I wouldn\u2019t like working from home, I thought I had developed a strong enough set of strategies and techniques for dealing with my ADHD to see me through. It turns out that was an arrogant and wrong assumption. <\/p>\n\n\n\n<!--more-->\n\n\n\n<p> Instead, I had a week of anxiety attacks and brain fog and I had to really scramble to feel healthy and functional again. Happily, I can say that my week 4 has been better, so I\u2019m in a better place to share some ideas and resources.&nbsp;  <\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Is it helpful to have a little refresher about ADHD before we go further? <\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Attention Deficit and Hyperactivity Disorder is a neurological disorder that affects the Executive Function, or the ability to plan, focus, and execute tasks. While commonly associated with children, it is estimated to occur in 2.5% of the adult population. You can <a href=\"https:\/\/www.ukaan.org\/what-is-adhd.htm\">find out more here<\/a>.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>I\u2019ve noticed something in the intervening two weeks since\nstarting this post; I think the pandemic is making everyone a little ADHD.\nEvery day I hear people talking about difficulty focussing, feeling like their\nbrains are full of static, anxiety about not being productive enough, or time\nseeming to be weirdly distorted. Now I am not in the habit of casually using\nmental health terms, but as we all find ourselves in the soupy mix of anxiety\nand change and stress, everyone\u2019s focus and executive functioning is likely to\nbe a little affected. <\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>The good news is that for those of you who don\u2019t normally\nexperience these kinds of issues, you\u2019ll find your balance again before too\nlong. And for those of us who do contend with this in normal life, we need to\nremember that we have the skills and tools that will pull us through little by\nlittle. This is what I\u2019ve found helpful: <\/p>\n\n\n\n<ol class=\"wp-block-list\"><li><strong>Remember: We are Not Working From Home<\/strong><\/li><\/ol>\n\n\n\n<p>What we\u2019re doing at the moment looks a lot like working from home, but what we are actually doing is just staying in our homes under government guidance because of a global pandemic. That\u2019s not quite the same thing. Few of us were able to plan our work to optimise this time; many of our jobs have aspects that can\u2019t easily be done remotely. All of us are dealing with large and small moments of grief, disappointment, and worry in our personal and work lives. What we are doing right now is working as best we can despite everything else, and it\u2019s helpful to keep that in mind.&nbsp;&nbsp; <\/p>\n\n\n\n<ol class=\"wp-block-list\" start=\"2\"><li><strong>Rebuild a Minimal Workday Routine<\/strong><\/li><\/ol>\n\n\n\n<p>One of the most important\nstrategies for coping with ADHD is building up daily routines. I have a very\nelaborate suite of tasks that I do on normal work days to help my brain\ntransition from \u2018home\u2019 to \u2018work\u2019. Once I get to my desk, I check these things\noff in my very-essential bullet journal, and then I dive into whatever the day\nholds in store for me. <\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>At first I tried to just import those routines into my new home-work setting, but that really quickly became overwhelming. Instead, I reduced the routine to just the essential things I need to do for my health and wellbeing and made everything else flexible or optional. My current approach is to know what to keep rigid (medication and supplements, bedtime, not drinking on weekdays), know what I need to be flexible about (exercise, meditation) and what needs to temporarily vanish from my life (a few personal projects \u2013 see point 7). Start small, and add slowly<a href=\"https:\/\/www.youtube.com\/watch?v=sV3zmA80j0I\">.<\/a><\/p>\n\n\n\n<figure class=\"wp-block-embed-youtube wp-block-embed is-type-video is-provider-youtube wp-embed-aspect-16-9 wp-has-aspect-ratio\"><div class=\"wp-block-embed__wrapper\">\n<iframe title=\"How to Rebuild Your Routines When Everything Changes\" width=\"640\" height=\"360\" src=\"https:\/\/www.youtube.com\/embed\/sV3zmA80j0I?feature=oembed\" frameborder=\"0\" allow=\"accelerometer; autoplay; clipboard-write; encrypted-media; gyroscope; picture-in-picture; web-share\" referrerpolicy=\"strict-origin-when-cross-origin\" allowfullscreen><\/iframe>\n<\/div><\/figure>\n\n\n\n<ol class=\"wp-block-list\" start=\"3\"><li><strong>Review Your Strategies and Try out some New Ones<\/strong><\/li><\/ol>\n\n\n\n<p>There are endless lists of strategies and techniques to help people with ADHD get through life, and I love learning about all of them. But day-to-day, I only use a few including my bullet journal, a pomodoro timer app, and timeblocking.&nbsp; I\u2019ve needed all of those over the last few weeks, but I\u2019ve also been using some that I don\u2019t rely on routinely including: <\/p>\n\n\n\n<ul class=\"wp-block-list\"><li>Fidget toys (or knitting) for long video\nconferences. Out of shot of the camera!<\/li><li>Flexible mini meditation breaks in the day\ninstead of a long session in the morning <\/li><li>Changing location to refocus my mind and tackle\na new task<\/li><\/ul>\n\n\n\n<p>If it\u2019s maybe been a while since you explored tips and techniques, have another look and see if there\u2019s a new one that might help you now (<a href=\"https:\/\/www.additudemag.com\/its-about-time-2\/\">some great ideas here<\/a>).<\/p>\n\n\n\n<ol class=\"wp-block-list\" start=\"4\"><li><strong>Set deadlines, create accountability, make rigid boundaries<\/strong><\/li><\/ol>\n\n\n\n<p>A lot of my work doesn\u2019t have a fixed deadline, especially now; they\u2019re tasks and projects that I should just be getting on with. As anyone who has ever attended a productivity training session knows, important-but-not-urgent is the hardest kind of work for most people to tackle, and it\u2019s even harder for people with ADHD. If this is tricky for you, find ways of creating deadlines. Tell your line manager or other colleagues when you\u2019ll have a draft for them to look at. Find an accountability buddy in your team and report in to them. <\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>And as much as you are able to, create a rigid separation between your work and non-work time. In my case, this means being really clear with my partner that he can\u2019t ask me casual questions when I\u2019m working; that distraction could potentially really derail me (I could not relate more to this scene below, as much as it pains me to admit). <\/p>\n\n\n\n<figure class=\"wp-block-embed-youtube wp-block-embed is-type-video is-provider-youtube wp-embed-aspect-16-9 wp-has-aspect-ratio\"><div class=\"wp-block-embed__wrapper\">\n<iframe title=\"PHANTOM THREAD - &#039;Interruption&#039; Clip - Everywhere Friday\" width=\"640\" height=\"360\" src=\"https:\/\/www.youtube.com\/embed\/NeOr4JcRhJE?feature=oembed\" frameborder=\"0\" allow=\"accelerometer; autoplay; clipboard-write; encrypted-media; gyroscope; picture-in-picture; web-share\" referrerpolicy=\"strict-origin-when-cross-origin\" allowfullscreen><\/iframe>\n<\/div><\/figure>\n\n\n\n<p>It means explaining to my team when I\u2019m around for chats and when I\u2019m concentrating on work and might have my email closed. It means being clear about my working hours and not feeling like I have to be on-call all the time just because I\u2019m home. <\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>I struggle with this normally,\ntoo, so a few months ago I began an end-of-the-day routine to help me accept\nwhat I\u2019d been able to do and transition my brain back to home mode. I\u2019ve\nstarted a simplified version of that up again this week, and it\u2019s been helpful.\nMy list currently includes: <\/p>\n\n\n\n<ul class=\"wp-block-list\"><li>Writing one last email <\/li><li>Noting down two things that went well, or even just ok<\/li><li>Updating my weekly list of things that my team have accomplished. This is more important than ever in this weird time.<\/li><\/ul>\n\n\n\n<div class=\"wp-block-media-text alignwide\" style=\"grid-template-columns:44% auto\"><figure class=\"wp-block-media-text__media\"><img decoding=\"async\" width=\"446\" height=\"559\" src=\"https:\/\/blogs.canterbury.ac.uk\/staffdevelopment\/wp-content\/uploads\/sites\/602\/2020\/04\/Waldo.jpg\" alt=\"cat sitting by a laptop\" class=\"wp-image-1910\" srcset=\"https:\/\/blogs.canterbury.ac.uk\/staffdevelopment\/wp-content\/uploads\/sites\/602\/2020\/04\/Waldo.jpg 446w, https:\/\/blogs.canterbury.ac.uk\/staffdevelopment\/wp-content\/uploads\/sites\/602\/2020\/04\/Waldo-239x300.jpg 239w\" sizes=\"(max-width: 446px) 100vw, 446px\" \/><\/figure><div class=\"wp-block-media-text__content\">\n<p> My cat Waldo sitting on my bullet journal and really not respecting boundaries or social distancing  <\/p>\n<\/div><\/div>\n\n\n\n<div style=\"height:33px\" aria-hidden=\"true\" class=\"wp-block-spacer\"><\/div>\n\n\n\n<ol class=\"wp-block-list\" start=\"5\"><li><strong>Take breaks throughout the day, at night, and on the weekend<\/strong><\/li><\/ol>\n\n\n\n<p>There is anecdotal evidence that people are working more hours now than they were before. Our commutes are gone, but our guilt is high, we don\u2019t feel as productive as normal. <a href=\"https:\/\/news.stanford.edu\/2020\/03\/30\/productivity-pitfalls-working-home-age-covid-19\/\">We probably aren\u2019t!<\/a> Try to be mindful of this and realistic about what you can do in a day and what\u2019s really required of you. <\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>I\u2019ve found it helpful to take breaks away from screens now and then and to make sure that I have a lunch break that definitely doesn\u2019t involve a laptop or my phone. <a href=\"https:\/\/chadd.org\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/06\/ATTN_10_15_BeatingTimeBlindness.pdf\">Set a timer if you have time blindness<\/a>, but give yourself a few minutes to disengage and relax. <\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Your situation may not allow you\nto fully unplug at night or at weekends, but if you can, you will genuinely\nfeel better for it. <\/p>\n\n\n\n<ol class=\"wp-block-list\" start=\"6\"><li><strong>Remember that there were bad days in \u2018normal\u2019 time, too<\/strong><\/li><\/ol>\n\n\n\n<p>Some workdays do not go to plan,\nbut at the moment, it\u2019s easy to blow a not-great-day out of proportion. When I\nfeel like I\u2019ve had a day where I haven\u2019t been able to do much at all, I\u2019m\nfinding it helpful to remind myself that some of my days were like that before,\ntoo. There were days with too many meetings and neglected emails and\nside-tracked projects. Things slipped. We aren\u2019t always our best. That\u2019s not\ngoing to change just because we\u2019re working from home. <\/p>\n\n\n\n<ol class=\"wp-block-list\" start=\"7\"><li><strong>This is not the right time for ADHDers to learn new skills<\/strong> <\/li><\/ol>\n\n\n\n<p>People are coming up with some\nreally wonderful online learning tools and resources for adults and kids and\nwow, it would be a great time to learn a new language or really perfect your\ndance moves, but if you have ADHD stop even thinking about adding a new hobby\nor project to your list. Look around your house. Count the number of on-the-go\nprojects you already have. I have about a dozen, one lurking in every corner of\nmy house. I do not need to learn Korean right now, even if BTS are giving free\nlessons.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>I\u2019m not saying this to curb\nanyone\u2019s ambitions or curiosity, but because there\u2019s a dark side to wanting to\ndive into everything at the moment. If you don\u2019t keep it up; you\u2019ll feel like a\nfailure. It\u2019s so easy to get overwhelmed by all of the things that you could be\ndoing, that you get paralysed. Absolve yourself of that pressure. <\/p>\n\n\n\n<ol class=\"wp-block-list\" start=\"8\"><li><strong>Treat your comorbidities<\/strong><\/li><\/ol>\n\n\n\n<p>ADHD tends to come with other\nmental health conditions including ASD, anxiety, depression and OCD, and it\nmight be important to treat those ones before your ADHD. In my experience, when\nI have an acute episode of anxiety or depression, it\u2019s more serious than even\nmy worst ADHD day. Take care of yourself as holistically as you can, whatever\nthat means for you. <\/p>\n\n\n\n<ol class=\"wp-block-list\" start=\"9\"><li><strong>Find some purpose<\/strong><\/li><\/ol>\n\n\n\n<p>As we\u2019ve been told countless times\nover the last few weeks, we\u2019re all already doing our part by just staying at\nhome. If you are doing that, looking after your loved ones (in person or\nremotely), and working too, your life has purpose. <\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>However, that may not feel like enough for you, and this need to do more is something that people with ADHD may experience more acutely than others. <u><font color=\"#000117\"><a href=\"https:\/\/www.additudemag.com\/slideshows\/benefits-of-adhd-to-love\/\">We like to be helpful, particularly in a crisis<\/a><\/font><\/u><a href=\"https:\/\/www.additudemag.com\/slideshows\/benefits-of-adhd-to-love\/\">.<\/a><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>There are lots of ways to do that\nat the moment, and many of these tasks can be done around your existing work or\nlife commitments and from home. I have a few things I\u2019m doing during my\nno-screen-time lunch breaks. If you want to take on a more substantial\nvolunteer role (i.e. with the NHS), talk to your line manager. <\/p>\n\n\n\n<ol class=\"wp-block-list\" start=\"10\"><li><strong>Recognise periods of transition and the discomfort of the unknown<\/strong><\/li><\/ol>\n\n\n\n<p>Now and again, I have a flutter of panic at the idea of going back to \u2018normal\u2019 life. This contradicts all of my conscious thoughts, but I know that rather than being fearful of \u2018real life\u2019, this is a sign that I\u2019m nervous about another transition. And that\u2019s ok. It\u2019s helpful to remember that we all feel uncomfortable about change. We\u2019ll probably even miss a few of the nicer routines we\u2019ve established during this time. There\u2019s a helpful post about this on this <a href=\"https:\/\/blogs.canterbury.ac.uk\/staffdevelopment\/managing-transitions\/\">very blog.<\/a><\/p>\n\n\n\n<ol class=\"wp-block-list\" start=\"11\"><li><strong>Continue to fight for treatment and accommodations<\/strong><\/li><\/ol>\n\n\n\n<p>Getting treated for ADHD, like\nmany mental health condition, is hard, and the local provision is patchy and\nconfusing. People with ADHD are often bad at asking for help or advocating for\nthemselves. We can feel like we\u2019re bothering people with our own insignificant\nissues, and a global pandemic will exacerbate these feelings.&nbsp; <\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Push through these doubts and ask for the help you need either from health care providers, or your line manager if you have disclosed to them. Review your accommodations and see if they need to be adjusted. Check out the <a href=\"https:\/\/blogs.canterbury.ac.uk\/staffdevelopment\/that-wonderful-big-white-wall\/\">support offered by CCCU<\/a>. We all deserve to be healthy right now. <\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>In addition to the links above, I\u2019ve found the following\npodcasts particularly helpful:<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p><a href=\"https:\/\/www.tenpercent.com\/podcast-episode\/esther-perel-236\">Ten Percent Happier with Esther Perel<\/a>; although this is about relationships, it has useful tips for setting kind boundaries with the other people who might be sharing your home.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p><a href=\"https:\/\/takecontroladhd.com\/the-adhd-podcast\">Taking Control: The ADHD Podcast<\/a>: This podcast has a very chirpy tone but persist. They\u2019ve made a few really useful episodes recently <\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>In writing this, I followed my own advice and asked for a\ndeadline that I just about met. And in true rambling ADHD-style, I\u2019ve written\nsomething three times longer than I should have. I still feel like this is too\nbrief, and I would be happy to chat with anyone else who wants to talk about\nhow their brains are coping with this situation. <\/p>\n\n\n\n<p><strong>Katie McGown, Arts and Culture Manager<\/strong><\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>I started writing this post two weeks ago, two weeks after I began self-isolating. 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