{"id":1617,"date":"2016-07-15T15:22:45","date_gmt":"2016-07-15T14:22:45","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/blogs.canterbury.ac.uk\/discursive\/?p=1617"},"modified":"2017-02-15T15:19:16","modified_gmt":"2017-02-15T15:19:16","slug":"the-fascination-of-whats-difficult","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/blogs.canterbury.ac.uk\/discursive\/the-fascination-of-whats-difficult\/","title":{"rendered":"The Fascination of What&#8217;s Difficult"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p><em><a href=\"https:\/\/blogs.canterbury.ac.uk\/discursive\/tag\/angela-gilchrist-author\/\">Angela Gilchrist<\/a>\u00a0reflects on the coronation of Theresa May as Prime Minister<\/em><\/p>\n<p><strong>Britain&#8217;s new Prime Minister, Theresa May, is confronted by a great many challenges, Brexit being just one. But it could well be the case that her biggest problem is that she is a woman, and if at least one Tory grandee is to be believed, a difficult one at that.<\/strong><\/p>\n<p><strong>Only\u00a0Ken Clarke would know precisely what he meant when he described Mrs May as such &#8211; but it was telling that he had found his former boss, Margaret Thatcher, a tad trying too. It&#8217;s hard to resist the conclusion that the common thread is femaleness.<\/strong><\/p>\n<p><strong>There&#8217;s lots of evidence that women who depart from expected norms, assert themselves strongly or rise to positions of power are usually seen as &#8216;difficult&#8217;. The feminist psychologist, <a href=\"http:\/\/fap.sagepub.com\/content\/23\/1\/63.full.pdf\">Jane Ussher<\/a>, suggests that the outspoken, difficult woman of the 16th century was castigated as a witch while the same woman in the 19th century was an hysteric. These stigmatising labels, suggests Ussher, are irrevocably tied to what it means to be a woman at a particular point in history.<\/strong><\/p>\n<p><strong>We know that women are more likely to be labelled as &#8216;borderline&#8217; or as having neurotic illnesses. Being called &#8216;difficult&#8217; then, is the most complimentary of the labels given to modern women. It could well mean that a woman has made it, or at the very least is set up for a fall from a <a href=\"http:\/\/psychology.exeter.ac.uk\/research\/glasscliff\/\">glass cliff<\/a>.<\/strong><\/p>\n<p><strong>It says a great deal though, that the &#8216;difficult&#8217; label emerged as soon as power seemed imminent. With Downing Street in sight, May quickly became, if not a 21st century witch exactly, then a woman to be suspicious of. A woman who wields power over you just has to be, well, <em>difficult<\/em>. And let&#8217;s not forget that May&#8217;s coronation was preceded by quaint conversations about her <a href=\"http:\/\/www.independent.co.uk\/news\/uk\/politics\/andrea-leadsom-theresa-may-vile-insulting-children-conservative-leadership-tory-a7128311.html\">childlessness<\/a> and lots of column inches about her love of fashion and cooking. Contrast this with the fact that David Cameron was in power for six years and I couldn&#8217;t tell you what his hobbies are or where he buys his clothes.<\/strong><\/p>\n<p><strong>The difficult woman theme is so pervasive that there&#8217;s even been a <a href=\"https:\/\/difficultwomenconference.wordpress.com\/\">conference<\/a> about it. There&#8217;s no shortage of material, it seems, relating to female iconoclasts and others who buck the prevailing zeitgeist. And a quick Google search reveals a number of self-growth articles advising men on how to <a href=\"http:\/\/thesocialman.com\/female-psychology-why-women-are-so-damn-difficult\/\">get along<\/a> with so-called difficult women and how to seduce them.<\/strong><\/p>\n<p><strong>May herself seems unfazed by the label: &#8216;British politics needs more \u2018bloody difficult women\u2019 she said in an interview <a href=\"http:\/\/www.theguardian.com\/politics\/2016\/jul\/09\/britain-needs-bloody-difficult-women-says-theresa-may-ken-clarke\">setting out her stall<\/a> for the Conservative leadership. Her new, more female than ever before Cabinet means we may already have a few others.<\/strong><\/p>\n<p><strong>With so many difficult women around, you could be forgiven for thinking that women had achieved equality. But then, the mere fact that I believe we haven&#8217;t, means that I too, must be difficult. 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